Match me if you can! Never flirt with women was as uncomplicated as in times of smartphones. Whether at home, at school / university, at the workplace or on the train: always have your mobile phone to the hot girls online.
In 2015, Tinder was very popular with the users, and 2016 will be no different. In this article we will give you the best tips and strategies on how to successfully write and get to know women on Tinder. So from the virtual chat is perhaps soon a real date or even the great love.
Why women write on Tinder?
On the Internet, countless single stock exchanges are buzzing, even dating apps for the smartphone are now like sand at sea. So there are plenty of opportunities to get to know a lot. Here the question arises: Does it need to flirt another online tool? Why should you use the Facebook-based Tinder when you want to write to women on the Internet. Tinder Real Life Flirting is always not that easy at it looks.
The advantages of Tinder in online dating are clear:
- Approximately 2 million users in Germany according to focus (as of 08.10.2015), including of course also numerous attractive women to get to know each other
- The most important functions are free of charge
- Quick access for users who already have a full Facebook profile because Tinder accesses the Facebook data
- Automatic pre-selection of women from the surrounding area
- But the biggest advantage is: You can only write to Tinder with women, who really are on you (“matches”). So save yourself the time to flirt in vain with women who have no interest in you anyway!
The Tinder principle: Without matches nothing goes
The Flirt App Tinder works quite simply: You will be shown photos of different women from your environment and you have to decide whether you like them or not. Swipe to the right or click on the heart means “Like”, with wiping left or clicking on the cross you forgive a basket (“Nope”). In this way, the users of the app also choose sympathetic men. Now comes the highlight of the whole thing: Only if both mutual liken and thus a “match” is generated, it is at all possible to contact the other person.
A targeted picking out of individual women from the mass of users is not possible in contrast to the conventional single stock exchanges and flirt apps. This is refreshingly different and makes the cover letter on Tinder an exciting game. Try it yourself!
In 4 steps to the match – this is how the app works!
Step 1: Fill out the Facebook profile and resize images
When you open Tinder and start for the first time, the app automatically imports your most important data: Facebook, photos, age, education, place of residence and interests are the stuff from which your Tinder profile is created. On your Facebook page, yawning emptiness prevails? Or is it hopelessly obsolete, still at the level of 2015 or older? Then it is high time to re-present yourself in the social network! Because with a well-filled Facebook or Tinder profile, you have the best chances of writing women – and can even make them write YOU!
By far the most important are your pictures – without the running is nothing. Keep in mind: With the matching system described above, most users decide in seconds whether the person depicted on the photo gets a like or not. Anyone who does not look attractive and sympathetic at first glance will never disappear into digital immersion. So, take a few good photos and put them on your Facebook account online. Also within the app you can select again separately pictures of Facebook or locally from your smartphone and put on the Tinder profile. So you are optimally equipped for the upcoming Tinder battle!
By the way: You want to check again how you present yourself in Tinder? In your settings menu, click on “View profile” at the bottom of your user name. Here you can take a look at your photo and the information provided.
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Step 2: Make settings
Before the Liken and later the cover letter go, the Tinder app needs the correct Feintuning. Go to the “Find Settings” menu to set the location and search radius. In addition, you have the possibility to limit the age range of the women you want to find on Tinder. With these options you can ensure that the app – at least roughly – has a suitable pre-selection for you. This will only show you the women who meet your search criteria and are eligible for a contact.
Step 3: Watch and liken women
All done? Good! May the games begin now! In the main menu of the app, you can now either liken or reject the displayed women after heartbreak. Our tip: Take the best time for each lady before you make a decision. Do not look superficial at her photo! After all, you want to write to Tinder, who will fit you as much as possible?
By clicking on her picture you open the profile and get more information about her person. There are often more pictures, but in the best case also residence, interests, a profile text and more. After this detailed study of their profile, you can still decide whether to give her a like or shoot her into the wind. This strategy will increase the quality of your matches – so you’ll find the best women.
Step 4: Get more matches
Of course, you can also as many women as possible to increase the chances of matches and even more users. The problem here: In the free version of Tinder the number of Likes you can assign daily, is strongly limited. So if you distribute your likes too lavishly, the fun is over after a short time.
Our tips: You upgrade to the paid version “Tinder Plus” with extended functionality for 11.75 € per month (applies to Android version in the Google Play Store, as of 22.02.2016). Or you install an older version of the app, for which no limitation of the Likes applies.
Then wait and drink tea until the first matches come in and you can get in touch. The higher the rate of your matches, the more women you can write – and of course the chances are that the right person is there for you. The number of your matches still leaves something to be desired? In this article you will soon find tips on what you can do if you have few or no matches so far.
The most important tips for the cover letter on Tinder
You had a match on Tinder? Congratulations, now can finally start the online dating! For this you have only to write the lady now, if she has not already done it herself. The big advantage: Since she has also lied to you, you must be sympathetic. So you do not chat in the chat women, who have anyway zero interest in an acquaintance.
But how can one write the pretty ladies on Tinder? Note also here, what is always the first message in the online dating always applies! The most important thing: do not send boring mass-mails with questions like “Hi, how are you?” Sayings à la “Hi, you’re really pretty” are taboo! With such messages you can wait a long time for an answer from her.
For first, women are more than bored with these nonsense phrases and get the feeling that you do not trouble yourself with the cover letter. Why should she answer a guy who does not even bother to make a reasonable message, let alone look at her profile? Secondly, the man, who indiscriminately distributes compliments, seems very submissive and has thus already catapulted himself into the austerity.
So you see: Although you have the sympathy of the woman in a match, it does not mean that you should write them with boring and annoying messages on Tinder! If you want to get a lot of answers, you have to be as creative as you would with other online partner exchanges.
Be unique but not good!
So write your mail as individually as possible to increase the chance of an answer. The tailor-made message with interesting questions counts! Look at her profile again and look for eye-catching details, which can be packed well into a message. This can be garments, the resort or their untidy room in a photo. But also hobbies, preferences for music, sports and other interests of the woman is very good. So you have a common theme that creates a connection between you.
As I said, most men are submissive in single stock exchanges, and they get a mucus track when they write pretty women. Who is it surprised that the ladies do not answer such types? Tinder will not be any different. Therefore, be different from the others! When flirting, you should therefore also be a bit cheeky and playfully play them on the scribble.
Ask if she is just as bite as her dog in the photo or if she can behave better. So that the whole thing in the online dating is not considered an offense wrong, you should always put a laughing smiley with such statements into your message.
Sympathetic men are in demand
Of course, you should not limit yourself to writing the good by the cocoa and tearing one joke after another. Such a thing arouses their interest, but does not suffice for real sympathy. So you are doing well to deepen your virtual date soon and look for similarities. Once again, the interests that she has indicated in her profile help. Talk to them if you have not done it yet!
If there is yawning emptiness in her profile? Then make her the mischievous to the reproach and inquire about her hobbies. “You look like you’re going to the gym regularly.” Or, “You like cats, do not you?” Or: “You look like the classic Sylt vacationer!”
Let yourself be creative, be creative! But stay at the same time always you yourself. If you these tips heartily, you can at the cover letter to Tinder basically nothing wrong.
Do not always and constantly answer!
Men who are available around the clock are yawning. This shows that they focus on women and have no meaningful employment in life. Therefore, always wait a while with the answer when you get a message from her. Write every reply in the chat sparingly and carefully, because less is here more clearly!
From Tinder to the phone
Tinder is indeed installed on a smartphone, really to get the listener most men the women but not – from a meeting not to mention. Instead, they squeeze their fingers sore and send messages, without even getting a step closer by the cover letter.
Therefore the tip: If you are sympathetic and in the chat on a wavelength writes, try to move the heart-loving to a telephone call! On the phone the communication is simply more personal than the constant texts on Tinder. So she can get a much more vivid impression of you and get used to your sexy voice. You will find hot tips for flirting on the phone .
And who knows: Maybe there will soon be a meeting in real life. So the virtual love and the exciting date turns into true love!
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